In many cultures, there exists an extreme dislike of or prejudice against members of the LGBT community. Among African Americans, that prejudice seems to be magnified especially for gay black men. The general idea is that black men have to be more masculine because of the position of black people in American society and the history of the emasculation of black males in America.
To add to the social and historical factors, hip hop culture shows us that black men have to demonstrate bravado and sexual prowess. It is quite the norm for black men to have involvement with numerous women. In fact, young men are encouraged to conquer women and procreate in order to show their peers that they are “real” men. So, when black men venture outside of that box, it can be unsettling for those around them. In many cases, gay men face the most opposition from people they know and love.
I have wanted to do a blog post about this issue for a while, and now Fox’s new hit show, Empire, has given me the perfect platform. In the show’s pilot, there is a very emotional scene in which Terrence Howard, playing music mogul and patriarch Lucious Lyon, puts his young son in a garbage can after the boy comes into the living room wearing high heels and a scarf. Even when his son, Jamal Lyon played by Jussie Smollett, becomes an adult, Howard ignores his obvious musical talent, routinely ridicules him for being gay, and denies him any chance to lead the families record label, Empire Records, after Howard himself steps down.
On the show’s third episode, Lucious and Jamal get into a heated argument. Lucious yells at his son, ” I didn’t bring any women into this world and to see my son become somebody’s b**ch (pause)…I don’t understand you!” Indeed, Howard’s character was having a very difficult time watching his son be in love with a man, and the troubled relationship between this father and son was hard to watch.
The discomfort brought on by the tense scenes between Howard and Smollett is exactly the response Lee Daniels, the show’s creator, wanted from his audience. According to an article on Fox 411, Daniels, at a recent television conference said “he wants to ‘blow the lid off homophobia’ in the African-American community with a depiction of the show’s lead character’s hostile relationship with his gay son.” He explained that the show is trying to “give people the opportunity to see that what they’re doing is painful.”
Daniels is right. I am sure if it is painful for me to watch on a TV show it is much more painful to live it. In real life, black gay boys are rebuffed by their parents, put out on to the streets, and in many cases they end up homeless. Not to be too dramatic, but the struggle is real. So, we should not throw our gay brothers away. If you don’t agree with their way of life, you are entitled to your opinion. But, we all know that black men have enough issues to contend with from people outside the black community. There is no need for any additional hatred or hostility.
Reference
Associated Press. (2015). Lee Daniels wants to expose homophobia in TV show ‘Empire’. Fox 411. Retrieved from http://www.foxnews.com/entertainment/2015/01/18/lee-daniels-wants-to-expose-homophobia-in-tv-show-empire/